Spousal Abuse: Recognizing and Dealing with the Signs

Spousal abuse has become a common and widespread issue across the world. It may be difficult to pinpoint exact prevalence rates due to underreporting, but many surveys indicate that a significant number of individuals have experienced this kind of abuse.

Given its growing presence, we want to address it head-on! In this article, we’ll help you understand the depths of spousal abuse and shed light on the telltale signs that might go unnoticed. We’ll also share some insights into how you can deal with such a situation or offer support to those affected by this.

Recognizing The Signs of Spousal Abuse

In most cases, the signs of abuse vary depending on the type of abuse and the individual circumstances of each relationship. However, some common indicators you need to watch out for will include:

1. Physical Injuries

Physical abuse is a more obvious form of spousal abuse. It includes any kind of physical force, such as hitting, slapping, grabbing, pulling, etc. These acts often leave visible signs of injury, including bruises, cuts, or broken bones.

2. Emotional Distress

Emotional abuse is often harder to detect as it includes a range of subtle and deceptive behaviors such as constant criticism, belittling remarks, manipulation, intimidation, etc. It’s aimed to make the victim feel confused, worthless, and isolated.

Some common signs of emotional abuse include behavioral changes, such as increased anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, and fearfulness.

3. Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse is common among intimate partners. It includes non-consensual and forced sexual intimacy that violates the victim’s autonomy and dignity. This can result in physical injuries, but in most cases, there are more profound impacts, such as psychological trauma, shame, depression, PTSD, guilt, etc.

4. Financial Restraints

Controlling a person’s finances can also be a form of spousal abuse. It’s aimed to make the victim completely dependent on the abuser, which leaves them feeling helpless, vulnerable, and trapped in the relationship.

How to Deal with Spousal Abuse?

When dealing with spousal abuse, it’s important to prioritize your safety. You should first consider leaving the situation and seeking help from a friend or family member. Once you’re at a safe place, you can reach out to a professional, such as a counselor, lawyer, or social worker. These individuals will help you protect yourself from the abuser and seek justice.

If you’re not the victim but you know someone who is suffering from spousal abuse, the first step would be to express your concern and offer your support. Then you can talk to them about how to escape the situation and contact the authorities.

How To Get Help?

If you’re currently in an unsafe situation, you should call the emergency services by dialing 911 or contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline. Once you’re safe with a friend or a family member, you can seek legal advice from WGS Law to protect yourself and seek justice. You can even schedule a virtual consultation via Zoom today.